{"id":574,"date":"2016-11-03T11:23:18","date_gmt":"2016-11-03T15:23:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/joeywrites.com\/?p=574"},"modified":"2016-11-03T11:26:52","modified_gmt":"2016-11-03T15:26:52","slug":"from-briefcase-to-purse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/joeywrites.com\/?p=574","title":{"rendered":"From Briefcase to Purse"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Today, I used my orange purse.<\/p>\n<p>Big deal, right? \u00a0Well, actually, yes.<\/p>\n<p>18 months ago, I decided I needed a change from where I was working. \u00a0I could feel my attitude towards my job changing, and I found myself under an incredible amount of stress. \u00a0I actually woke up with night terrors\u00a0from the pressure.<\/p>\n<p>I left the company at the end of January 2015,\u00a0taking a higher level, better paying job with a smaller firm. \u00a0This new job added more pressure for performance, but at least I had more control and ability to implement the changes needed. \u00a0I found myself working long hours, and soon purchased a briefcase so I could take my laptop home with me every night and weekend just in case I needed it.<\/p>\n<p>I also began to travel for my job &#8211; something I enjoyed but that often exhausted me. \u00a0My health, which was already suffering, became worse. The <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Plantar_fibromatosis\" target=\"_blank\">plantar fibromatosis<\/a>\u00a0has grown increasingly more painful, and treatment only cured things temporarily. And even though my work environment was better,\u00a0the weighty aspects of my job continued to wear on me.<\/p>\n<p>With my wedding in May of 2016, I felt like I couldn&#8217;t make any major changes before then &#8211; but I also realized that with all the cost-saving budgeting we had been doing\u00a0to afford our nuptials, I could afford to take a pay cut if it meant finding a job that gave me a better quality of life.<\/p>\n<p>Within 2 weeks of returning from my honeymoon,\u00a0I accepted a new job with a small but solid digital marketing firm. The changes to my work life were immediate. \u00a0But I still couldn&#8217;t break the habit of bringing my briefcase every day just in case.<\/p>\n<p>My new boss, however, did not expect us to work nights or weekends. \u00a0<em>&#8220;We are not curing cancer here, there is no reason to work past 5 PM.&#8221;<\/em> \u00a0And she often will be the one shooing us out the door at 5:01.<\/p>\n<p>A few months ago, a friend told me about a sale on laptops, and we snagged one on the last day of the sale. And even though I&#8217;ve not used it for work, it&#8217;s there if I ever did really need it.<\/p>\n<p>This week, my boss called me in to the office and gave me a 5-minute, highly positive review and a raise. \u00a0It was official, I had found my new work home.<\/p>\n<p>And that was it. \u00a0My last reason for carrying around the briefcase, and the significance attached to it, was gone.<\/p>\n<p>So today, I pulled my well-loved orange purse down from my closet shelf, transferred over my few personal belongings from my briefcase, and left the house.<\/p>\n<p>Big deal, right? \u00a0Yes, yes it is.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/joeywrites.com\/?attachment_id=575\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-575\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-575 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/joeywrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/IMG_4546-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"img_4546\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/joeywrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/IMG_4546-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/joeywrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/IMG_4546-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/joeywrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/IMG_4546-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/joeywrites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/IMG_4546.jpg 1632w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today, I used my orange purse. Big deal, right? \u00a0Well, actually, yes. 18 months ago, I decided I needed a change from where I was working. \u00a0I could feel my attitude towards my job changing, and I found myself under an incredible amount of stress. \u00a0I actually woke up with night terrors\u00a0from the pressure. 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