Seen on a dating website:

My self-summary:  I am currently dealing with a bad back and leg pain with nerve damage and I am hoping to meet some new ppl here.

What I’m doing with my life: I am currently waiting on my lawyer to work a settlement so I can go back to school and improve my life I am wanting to do something with my life.

The gentleman who penned this saw me viewing his profile and immediately messaged me, wanting to get to know each other better.

I don’t mean to judge – but if these are the only 2 things you have on your profile (there are like 6-8 areas to fill out) this just tells me you are a little more passive and in need than I am prepared to deal with at this time.

Is that mean?  I guess it’s mean.  But to me it tells me what your doctor is doing and what your lawyer doing – but not what you are doing or your back up plan if these things don’t change.  And that worries me.