A friend of mine recently posted, “My problem is I don’t know how to start dating again, lol. . . “ I originally replied that “You start by starting” I realize that was pithy and cutesy, but I truly mean it. But in the meantime, I went back and dug up some notes I had…
Month: August 2013
Permission to Try
Several of my friends have told me that they have just given up on love. They read my blog posts, shake their heads, and then say, “And this is why I stopped dating.” I totally get that. I also have friends that tell me how hurt they were by the last relationship, and how hesitant…
Oh Boy
This is what happens when you forget to log out of your OKCupid app on your phone and it’s midnight on a Friday night. He: oh boy Me: oh girl? He: u r trouble Me: why do you say that? He: because you look like trouble Me: looks can be deceiving He: damn! I was…
What Had Happened Was . . .
I met Chase on OKCupid. He had actually messaged me just as I was starting to date Knight, so I ended up messaging him back several weeks later when things went sour. Chase was a very busy man: two jobs and going to school. So we mostly chatted online, although he asked me if I…